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Friendships blossom at assisted living facility amid initial reluctance

 
Friendships blossom at assisted living facility amid initial reluctance
William (Bill) De Young, Chief Executive Officer | Official Website

When Barbara moved into Park Place of St. John just before Christmas, she had a clear stance on her new living situation: she did not want to be there. “I wanted to stay in my home,” she admitted, acknowledging her initial negative attitude.

Her perspective shifted over time due to the supportive community around her. “With the help of all these people, I’m a much better person. I enjoy being here now. The staff is wonderful,” she said.

Barbara joined four other women—Betty, Lydia, Shirley, and Irene—in reflecting on their experiences at Park Place. Despite each having unique stories, they shared a common bond in the friendships they formed after initially resisting the move.

Betty also recounted her journey to Park Place following health issues that made living alone unfeasible. Her outlook changed through interactions with fellow residents during meals. “You find people who are similar to you. And the staff? They’re great.” She particularly enjoys visits from children at local Christian schools, recalling a recent bingo game where kids from St. John the Evangelist participated.

Bingo remains a favorite activity among these women as it provides an opportunity for camaraderie and laughter, often followed by enjoying fresh air outside together.

Lydia has been at Park Place for 13 months and appreciates both the care provided and her proximity to Betty as neighbors. “There’s always a nurse around—and that’s very important,” she noted while valuing family visits.

Irene transitioned from skilled nursing two months ago and expressed satisfaction with her new environment: “The staff is wonderful. I really have no complaints.” She praised the uplifting atmosphere and entertainment available.

Shirley offered advice for newcomers based on her two-year residency: “You have to say to yourself, ‘This is where I am, and this is my home.’ Then you’ve got to get out and get involved.” She emphasized community support among residents when someone isn’t feeling well and credited staff efforts in creating a homelike environment.

Though these women were strangers before moving in, they now share meals, play games, attend chapel services together—and frequently visit each other's rooms for conversations that fill their days with comfort and connection.